ewein2412: (osprey hair)
EWein2412 ([personal profile] ewein2412) wrote2009-12-10 09:50 am

life in scotland

Yesterday a tree-cutting chap who was trimming the neighbors' willows offered me a reasonable price to do some trimming in our garden too. He was a bit of a cowboy and we haggled some. Every time he addressed me directly during our conversation, not knowing my name, he called me "my lady."

It came out very naturally, but at the same time was incredibly obsequious. He didn't have a hat but you got this ghost of a doff every time he said it--perhaps half a dozen times during the conversation.

It is sometimes UNUTTERABLY WEIRD living in Scotland.

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Meanwhile, on the other side of the Atlantic, local businesses also carry on. Impossible to say how many times Royer's Flowers in Lebanon, PA, has saved my butt. Next to the osprey webcam they are quite possibly my all time favorite web site.

For example--this morning I shipped out a gift basket to my nephew whose birthday is today. He's asleep in his bed and I'm sending him a birthday present from 3500 miles away which will arrive sometime after he wakes up. I also love the way it was cheaper and faster to send my cousin a wedding greeting via Royer's, along with a bunch of flowers, than to send a telegram.

If, like me, someone sent you a wedding telegram, doesn't that make you feel ANTIQUE?

[identity profile] tiboribi.livejournal.com 2009-12-10 02:52 pm (UTC)(link)
My lady is so much cooler than ma'am. Ma'am bugs me, and I've used it myself.

[identity profile] ashfae.livejournal.com 2009-12-10 04:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I still twitch whenever someone says 'Aye'. I'm living in pirate country!!

[identity profile] ashfae.livejournal.com 2009-12-10 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)
No, that one makes me cringe, something about the word just sets my teeth on edge.

I do say 'ta' for thanks/goodbye all the time now, though.

[identity profile] ashfae.livejournal.com 2009-12-11 01:17 pm (UTC)(link)
I've caught myself saying cheers, and then doing a double take because that one's still strange to me. But 'ta' slipped into my vocabulary as if it'd always been there. I say it when I'm back home in the States without thinking, and get some very odd looks. Whups. =)

Do you find that you can't remember how to pronounce certain words? My husband and I have argued so much over how "coherent" is pronounced that I now can't actually remember which one was 'mine', I use them both interchangeably. Ditto basil. The h in herb is still silent, though!

[identity profile] marith.livejournal.com 2009-12-10 04:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think I've ever seen a telegram. It would be antique but cool!

[identity profile] j-cheney.livejournal.com 2009-12-10 04:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm getting to the age where I get ma'am all the time, but never my lady.

(The guy at Taco Bell called me 'sweetheart' yesterday, though, which was equally baffling.)

[identity profile] j-cheney.livejournal.com 2009-12-10 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)
::shudders::

[identity profile] ashfae.livejournal.com 2009-12-11 01:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I just hate that. I always want to retort " I am not a chicken!!" Other endearments I don't mind at all, but hen is annoying.

[identity profile] ashfae.livejournal.com 2009-12-18 01:40 pm (UTC)(link)
That's a good suggestion, I'll give it a try. =) I think I don't like the word hen, really...something about the "ehn" sound perhaps.
sovay: (Rotwang)

[personal profile] sovay 2009-12-10 05:59 pm (UTC)(link)
If, like me, someone sent you a wedding telegram, doesn't that make you feel ANTIQUE?

I think receiving a telegram would make my day.
sovay: (Psholtii: in a bad mood)

[personal profile] sovay 2009-12-11 05:03 am (UTC)(link)
Well, it CAN be, but not for less than about $150, and it takes 3 days, which TOTALLY defeats the WHOLE PURPOSE of a telegram, to my mind.

Okay; that's useless.

[identity profile] lauradi7.livejournal.com 2009-12-10 06:02 pm (UTC)(link)
[I'm struggling with kinship terms here.] The English father of my aunt (who is my aunt because she was married to my late uncle)didn't travel across the pond to attend the weddings of my cousins, but insisted upon sending fondly worded congratulatory telegrams that were read aloud at the receptions.
In this modern age aren't telegrams emailed from one Western Union office to another and then printed out?

Tanita Says :)

(Anonymous) 2009-12-10 07:49 pm (UTC)(link)
M'lady beats Miss or Ma'am by a league.

BTW, I'm **NOT** in Scotland, so email me your order if you're not coming home; I'll be back on the other side of the pond in January. Of course, it's freezing here, too, just because I'm here...